This us and our so called life

Last week my sweet cousin got married...she's the same age as i am..congratulations!!!She look so pretty in her wedding dress...we ( my family ) slept over to help with some last minute preparations...weddings are happy function...but sad feelings creep into our heart at the same time..why?because some how we know things would be a little different after this...yet we are so happy for them...and hope their happiness will last...it is always been a wonder..how two very different people can take the step of commitment and make the decision to live their life together...marriage is a very big step...your consider all the risk,the goods and the bads..before you say i do...when someone you know since you were little got married..you feel (at least this is how i feel )..that the other person has gone to another stage of life..and you can't help wondering...when will be your time...some says that if it is meant to be..the steps to get there comes naturally and easy...but i, myself can't be sure of it..since i'm not there yet..hehe..weddings..are also great place to meet your family..the ones that you don't meet much..i met my uncles and aunt..whom i've never met before..my mum has a lot of siblings...(because my grandfather married thrice)..thus on function like this i get to know their faces..their names...my mum said that one of my uncle resemblance my grandfather..so i was very excited meeting him..because i never met my grandfather...he is about 70 over i think..but he still look handsome...hehe...my grandfather must be a handsome man then...the wedding went some how smoothly..the groom lafaz nikah twice..for entertainment they had cak lempong..i think cak lempong is better than playing songs on the AV system...it gave a traditional touch to the wedding...anyway...i wish the best of life to them....am feeling sleepy..need to go to sleep...


the bride and bridegroom..bagai pinang dibelah dua...


our family on ciah's wedding...31stJuly2005


me and ciah..me not yet change into baju kurung..


with ciah after nikah ceremony


us..the cousins...trying to be helpful...hehe